Dear Future Study Abroad Student,

Right now, I’m living and studying abroad in Japan, splitting my time between Tokyo and Fukuoka. And if there’s one thing I’ve realized, it’s that studying abroad doesn’t just change your surroundings—it changes you. So if I were talking to another student preparing to study abroad, or someone already in the middle of it, here’s what I’d tell them—straight from what I’m experiencing right now.

1. Let Go of the Need to Control Everything

I’d tell them not to cling too tightly to a plan. There’s beauty in letting the day unfold naturally. Some of the most meaningful experiences come from unexpected detours or spontaneous conversations with locals. Japan has a way of rewarding openness—so I’d tell them to make room for surprise.

2. Don’t Wait to Feel Confident—Be Curious Instead

I’d remind them that they don’t need to be fluent or fearless to engage. Curiosity will carry them further than confidence ever could. Even just trying to speak the language, asking small questions, or showing interest in someone’s culture builds a real connection. I’ve seen firsthand how far a warm smile and genuine interest can take you.

3. Stop Trying to Perform the “Perfect Experience”

I’d warn them not to fall into the trap of turning every moment into content. It’s easy to feel pressure to capture everything for social media, but the truth is, the most transformative moments usually happen off-camera. I’d encourage them to journal, to sit quietly with their thoughts, and to honor their own rhythm instead of chasing someone else’s idea of what study abroad should look like.

4. Expect Emotions to Hit Differently—Especially About Love

I’d be honest: being away from people you care about can shake things up. I’d tell them it’s okay if they find themselves missing someone deeply, or questioning relationships back home. The distance brings clarity. Sometimes, love grows. Other times, you realize you were more attached to the idea of someone than the reality. Either way, the time apart can be a mirror.

5. See This as a Beginning, Not a Break

I’d challenge them to see their study abroad experience as more than just a chapter—it’s a catalyst. If they’ve ever dreamed of working internationally, pursuing a global career, or reinventing themselves, this is the time to lean into it. I’d tell them to listen to the parts of themselves that feel the most alive right now—that’s their future talking.

If I could look any study abroad student in the eye, I’d say this: you’re not just earning credits or collecting passport stamps. You’re stepping into a fuller version of yourself. Some days will stretch you, and others will wrap you in beauty. But every single day is part of your becoming. And that’s worth everything.